bowlingalleylawyer:

jaimeleighfairbrother:

Listen, I’m not into any of this rah rah you go girl sisterhood bullshit. I’m taking care of me. I’m living for me. Sometimes I fuck married men. I don’t feel badly about this. People are only as faithful as their options, okay? Monogamy is bullshit. If it wasn’t, your husband probably wouldn’t be sticking his dick in me.

Sometimes I don’t fuck married men, too. But I don’t hold back to save his wife any pain or because I owe it to her by virtue of the fact that we both have ovaries. Sometimes it just isn’t worth it.

If I am going to do or not do something I promise you it won’t be because of some goddamned code of ethics, it’ll be because I’ve given it the appropriate consideration and I’ve come up with what I think is the best choice.

The concept of a “sisterhood” or a code of some sort is just as fucked up as practicing virtuous behaviour because it says so in the bible. I give to charity, for example, but I don’t do it because Jesus tells me to. The value of charity is innate—there is inherent goodness in it. If you’re doing something because you’ve been instructed to by some arbitrary book of rules than you are missing the point.

From the perspective of the wife that you seem to have no feeling for:

We pity you. You have some idea in your poor little lonely head that you have something on us. You don’t. You are a sad hole. Nothing more. We all have holes… men, women, waitresses…. it doesn’t matter. You aren’t special. But you, in all your loneliness, have convinced yourself that you matter somehow… that you have effected a marriage even. You haven’t. As you admit, no man would even look at you if the relationship wasn’t already in trouble.

So, you have made yourself into some hot thang that no one really sees you as, but yourself. You are, in everyone’s eyes a poor substitute. Your hole is old and used up and actually scary to most people. But you live in your lonely world…where some one might give you scraps of a life, but not really. You don’t matter… you exist in the shadows and corners of the real world. This makes you feel good? This validates you somehow? I’m sorry. I’m sorry that the real world that the rest of us live in is just a glimpse that you will only get to live in on the side lines because you don’t have enough self respect to get your OWN life. And no matter how big and bad you come out against what I say here, that is always what you will be- a poor substitute for the real thing. You are sad. Close your legs and think that maybe, one day, someone will love you for more than your hole. But, if you keep up this attitude, no one will.

But that seems your Tumblr desire- so open up whore. They are all here to fuck and forget you. Wipe up when you are done hun, people are watching.

Show your tits some more. Be even MORE predictable……

I’m reblogging for context — BAL, I understand exactly where you’re coming from. And you know what a big part of the problem is? There’s a large segment of the population that simply doesn’t believe that there is a “right” and a “wrong.” It has nothing to do with “sisterhood” or “fidelity” or “monogamy.” There are some folks who believe in morals, and a code of conduct, and respect of others — and there are bunches of folks who are only out for themselves, no matter who it affects, consequences be damned.

Case in point: if you’re married, you don’t cheat. Period. You work on your marriage. If it doesn’t work, you work on it some more. If it doesn’t work, you work on it some more anyway. Only when you get to the point when you know , in your heart of hearts, that the marriage is irreparably damaged and beyond repair do you stop working on it. But you don’t cheat. You don’t like your spouse anymore? Try to find out why. Try to fix it. Try to resolve things. But you don’t cheat. And if you can’t fix it, after you’ve tried everything you can think of, then you can work towards ending the marriage. But you don’t cheat.

And if you meet a married man (or married woman), hands off. Period. He’s attractive, interesting, successful, dreamy. Whatever. He’s taken. Spoken for. With someone else. You don’t cheat. Why? Because it’s not right. It’s just not.

In this world, there are certain “right” things to do and “wrong” things to do. There just are. You may not like it, you may not agree with me, but that doesn’t change the fact that there are “right” things and “wrong” things. But that fact is undermined in today’s world. Society has grown increasingly accepting of this philosophy of moral relativism — that there are no universal truths, no moral certainties, no absolute “rights” and “wrongs”. I couldn’t disagree more — but I fear mine is an increasingly unpopular opinion. And that’s why there are folks with jamieleighfairbrother’s views, who don’t give a crap about anybody else’s feelings.

To me, moral relativism and anarchy go hand-in-hand. People do whatever the hell they please, and screw their neighbors (figuratively and literally). Ain’t no way the world can survive if anarchy and moral relativism rule the day. Society won’t survive because it can’t under those circumstances.

You may disagree; that’s your right. But you’d be wrong.